Sorry to ask here, but I need to ask experienced people. I just graduated from college but facing a dilemma between my father and my boyfriend. My father works in banking, and he always has a high expectation of what I do; even to my relationship. On the other hand, my boyfriend is a smart sweet guy. He might not have a high educational background, but he always supports me and help me figure out the best solution to my problems. My boyfriend is taking over his family business as an integration company in the security field, but obviously, my father is not satisfied with what my boyfriend does. And I can feel that my father is trying to push him away from me. Is it real that being an integrator can't make a good business and take care of the family? I really don't believe what my father told me.